Etiquette When Sending Get Well Soon Cards

When illness or injury isolates us from our daily societal contacts, we find true appreciation for Get Well wishes sent to us by mail. Although we may not be fit to receive visitors or engage in phone conversations, it takes little effort to receive mail. Warm and heartening good thoughts from friends and business acquaintances are greatly appreciated. We find pleasure in knowing that others care enough to express their concern for our well-being. These good feelings can help speed the healing process and have a palliative effect. This, in turn, leads us to positive thoughts and feelings toward those who were so thoughtfully concerned about our welfare.

To be one of those thoughtful and concerned associates or friends and to follow proper get well greeting card etiquette, be prepared to send your message promptly, as soon as you learn of the illness, injury, or hospitalization. Of course, you’ll want to start with a get well card that uses cheerful or soothing colors and design. In your own way, you’ll want to express, “sorry you are ill,” “hope you’re feeling better soon,” “sending positive thoughts/prayers for you,” and “hoping to see you again soon.”

No matter what professionally printed greeting may be in your get well soon cards, an added hand-written note is expected. Keep your sentiments upbeat and brief. Your message will be more comfortably received when it is offered in a relaxed and informal manner. This is not the time for stiff, formal phrasing. If you’re able to include an anecdote, jokes, or a bit of pleasant news to cause a smile, by all means do so. If you are able and willing, offer to perform a chore, run an errand, or complete a project. If you include your phone number for easy reference, your offer will be recognized as genuine. Perhaps you want to add, “Please call when you feel up to a chat or visit.”

If the person’s confinement becomes long-term, one or more repeat mailings to say “Still Thinking of You,” will also be appreciated.